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{ Sunday Kinkuisition }

• Charles won’t generally say anything about it unless he happens to trust his partner – and as more often than not his partners are flings, prostitutes, or Eleanor, the whole trust factor is just. Not something that tends to be in play – although it can be vouched that in that one verse where Joji’s on the Ranger, Charles did discuss this with him because he’d reached that level where he was considered more than just valuable, or an occasional friend-with-benefits, but one of Charles actual people.  

  That said, the fact is Charles hates being pinned down or held down in any way and will always flip the situation around to put himself on top or at an angle where he cannot be maneuvered or forced into a compromising position. This stems from years of seeing and registering the dangers of being the bottom party, of having been tackled down too many times, of having his autonomy stripped away so goddamn often there were times when he wondered what the point of standing up again even was. 

  While there is no certainty that being pinned will trigger him off, he prefers to avoid the risk altogether thanks to enough bad experiences to know what he finds comfortable and what he doesn’t. Because of this, he is always the big spoon – but in truth, he has learned to trust partners enough to be the little one – and frankly he prefers it, but he’d never own that in any particular fashion, so much as simply find ways to adjust to it in natural ways the same way he controls how pinned he feels.

• Charles loves the soft curves of women and finds their company to be pleasurable – more often than not he tends to just enjoy the feel of them tucked against his sides though. He’s always ready to go – if a partner wants to fuck he does not need a lot of stimulation – which is why he cherishes moments where it isn’t about the fucking, and is just about the contact.

  He likes holding women – and he likes being held by men, which is a direct contradiction to his pinning issue, but he finds ways to make it work. He rather hates the emptiness when casual partners leave, but at the same time he knows he will not have to work hard to replace them, so he tends to rebound easily enough. 

• Pet him. I think we covered this once before but – seriously, this man loves being petted when he feels secure.