And more today on Thomas Hamilton and his chaotic gay energies:
Thomas is an adventurous person – particularly when it comes to bedroom affairs – and is generally looking for means of increasing pleasure for himself and his partner(s) that can go beyond what many would consider the norm. He finds inspiration from many sources, including those partners themselves – and among the things he has tried, some of his favorite things include:
Silver’s sexual deviancies are as much a mystery to him as they are to me outside of the nature of his sexuality, so this will instead cover things he does not enjoy simply because he only has one basis for comparison. With only one sexual encounter to go off you’d think he wouldn’t really know much – but when that one encounter consists of five whores – boy, talk about your crash course education.
He was overwhelmed and considered it to be far too many things to keep track of – even without the additional factors in play of making sure he wasn’t robbed or attacked, and his heightened paranoia at the time, he understood well enough that he was not a big fan of a party of four or more.
That said, the fact is Charles hates being pinned down or held down in any way and will always flip the situation around to put himself on top or at an angle where he cannot be maneuvered or forced into a compromising position. This stems from years of seeing and registering the dangers of being the bottom party, of having been tackled down too many times, of having his autonomy stripped away so goddamn often there were times when he wondered what the point of standing up again even was.
While there is no certainty that being pinned will trigger him off, he prefers to avoid the risk altogether thanks to enough bad experiences to know what he finds comfortable and what he doesn’t. Because of this, he is always the big spoon – but in truth, he has learned to trust partners enough to be the little one – and frankly he prefers it, but he’d never own that in any particular fashion, so much as simply find ways to adjust to it in natural ways the same way he controls how pinned he feels.
He likes holding women – and he likes being held by men, which is a direct contradiction to his pinning issue, but he finds ways to make it work. He rather hates the emptiness when casual partners leave, but at the same time he knows he will not have to work hard to replace them, so he tends to rebound easily enough.
I guess now would be a fantastic time to announce the logistics here. Juan was stolen from Spain when he was eleven – obviously he was not having sex at that age. He was then broken down and fashioned into a representative for his father’s family – not married though, which means – you guessed it – at the ripe age of twenty-one, the man who would become John Silver straight up lost his virginity to five whores in Nassau.
His introduction to the more carnal aspects of life was – if nothing else – enlightening. He learned more about what he didn’t like than about what he did – but if nothing else we do have a basis for what he isn’t into. I have another kinkuisition for him where I will cover those – here, I will talk about the things he learned were enjoyable.
Now that we’re both done giggling at that unintended pun —
He loves a man he can debauch something ferocious and not have anyone fucking question what happened, alright? If they’re already messy who’s going to tell the difference between thoroughly fucked and general inability to comport one’s self?
Hand holding is something that is completely normal to him – and while he has learned among the English it is absolutely not the done thing, he generally finds individuals who crave simple human connections like he does and manages to clasp hands with those he becomes close to rather regularly. For him this is nothing more than a friendly action and there is nothing untoward about it.
That said, there are certain kinds of touching that can lead to oft-unintended arousal – such as clasping his leg or laying a hand on the small of his back. Both of these are deeply intimate gestures in his culture, and indicative to him of seduction and attraction that – if one is not clear – could lead to misunderstanding as surely as it could to bliss.
Muharrem is deeply moved by massage, as it is both an intimacy and a kindness – due to his stances on leg touching, having his thighs and calves massaged is sure to turn this man into a heated puddle beneath one’s palms quite easily.
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